Being brought up in a large township of Tembisa was probably one of the greatest gifts given to me because I would not have had the opportunity to see life in two worlds. My life was, like most teenagers, plagued by lack of discipline as evidenced by the associations I made, the places I...
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So you made a mistake in the major you chose or what you want to do for the rest of your life *queue existential crises*. What to do? These are tough questions for trying times, but guidance and self-empathy are vital for surviving. If you’re unhappy with your decision for your undergrad major, master’s...
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“My Father needs help!” I remember as the man stood alongside his elderly father, and I stood before them, tired, hungry, and exhausted. It had been a long day in the emergency department, and I knew I was getting frustrated. With three other patients to tend to, I was beginning to lose my patience....
READ MORENavigating self doubt using compassion and trust
I don’t know how to do this. I can’t do this. What if I fail? We have all been there, we all have critical inner thoughts that can lead to feelings of self doubt. Often, we perceive self doubt to be a measure of our self worth; the more self doubt we experience the more...
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Here are some tips which have allowed me to hone my skills, boost my creativity and achieve my goals. They have been hard-won, but are vital for success. Step outside your comfort zone Our brains are hardwired to stick with what’s familiar in order to keep us safe, but in today’s world, we need...
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If there is one thing I have learned along my life journey is how to have staying power. Having worked at several dead-end jobs without motivation, I had come to a crossroads in my personal and professional life. I knew I had to make a change to affect my own desired outcome. I realized...
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Fulfillment. The ultimate goal of the average person is fulfillment, and contentment, to feel that they belong somewhere and improve upon a space. But what happens if this contentment comes in a way you didn’t expect? How do you manage the mixed feelings of elation and guilt at finding your niche in an unexpected...
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